Confidence is actually half the battle won in mot situations, as well as being a very powerful psychological effect on everyone around you. Confidence is belief, it is purpose and it is movement, it drives you towards a situation where failure is not an option and ‘trying your best’ is just a popular euphemism – even a cliché you might call it.
We all need to have confidence in you and if you think that you are not a confident person at heart, then it is time to rethink and re assess what you are doing in your life and use some confidence techniques to help you get back in the heat of things and lead the charge to your own life’s success. There are many factors that can lead to the drop in confidence and they can include things like experiential anecdotes, traumas, phobias in your life or even things that you do in your everyday life.
The bottom line about this theory is negative energy and one look at the world would see wave upon wave of negative energy almost becoming a sea that surrounds and would very well threaten you. We are all drowning in our own negative spirits and it is important to note that we need to find a life buoy to keep our selves afloat and get to that little island where we can start to rebuild the foundations of our economic, social and emotional survival.
This is where confidence techniques come in and to quote a popular Monty Python song, you need to start looking at the bright side of life, and this is the only way that you are going to overcome low self esteem and other low confidence problems. Recognise that you are the only person best equipped to solve all your problems, and in doing so, you will then start the momentum needed to better yourself. First and foremost, you need to start celebrating, and I mean about anything, even if the triumph or achievement is something that is really not that large.
Once you are able to do this, you will be pervading positive energy all around you and then and only then can you start to lift your head up above the clouds. Ignore the negative aspects of your life and this can even be the people that you surround yourself with, and this even includes your family members. You have to train yourself to shrug off comments and not take things too much to heart, and believe in your own abilities; this will allow you to maximise the potential of your inert gifts and talents and breathe new life into them.
You also need to take stock of your life and take a deep breath and stress is one of the main factors which will then lead you to the mental breakdowns of all breakdowns. These are some of the techniques and methods you can use to assess, focus, marginalise and destroy the aspects of your life that are riding down your self confidence.